2013 October, available at: ForYourMarriage.org

Archive for October, 2013

October 14, 2013

Fighting Fair Tip: Pick a good time. That probably means not when one spouse is about to leave the house or just getting home from work. Sleep deprived or frantically busy spouses don’t make receptive listeners either. When is a good time for you?

October 13, 2013

Today’s Gospel reading (Luke 17:11-19) recounts the story of the ten lepers. All were healed, but only one returned to thank Jesus. For what can you thank your spouse today?

October 12, 2013

Who usually has the final word in an argument or family decision? If it doesn’t balance out, check if one of you is taking unfair advantage of the other. Somebody may be talking too much.

Secular Press Suggests Time is Ripe to Rediscover, Promote NFP

Two secular magazines recently admitted women’s growing discontent with the Pill. Tired of the unpleasant side effects of hormonal contraception, some women are resorting to the withdrawal method as a way of preventing pregnancy; others are re-discovering fertility awareness-based methods. These trends suggest that the time is ripe to encourage men and women to reconsider the Church’s rich teaching on human sexuality.

October 11, 2013

Have you ever sought professional help for troubles between you? Perhaps you don’t need it, but don’t let pride or procrastination rob you of the chance to learn new skills and heal.

October 10, 2013

What prompts your beloved to cry? Nothing? Anything? A sad movie? How do you usually respond? Is it a welcome response?

My Legacy

What will your legacy be? Sara reflects here on the “little moments” of sacrifice for the good of her husband and son. “While small, these are tasks of monumental importance because it is through them that I will leave my legacy.”


Josh recently returned from a great weekend with his dad, watching baseball and making memories. In this post, he expresses his gratitude for the sacrifices Stacey made to let him have this trip: “I felt like she had my full thriving in mind – that she wanted the best for me, regardless of what that might mean for her.”

October 9, 2013

Does one of you desire more creature comforts than the other? Be flexible. Can you accept what you have, whether a lot or a little?

October 8, 2013

Learn something from a child today. From an infant it might be to let others care for you; from a school age child it could be a technology tip, teens can cue you to a cutting edge movie, from a young adult it might be an insight about relationships.

October 7, 2013

Do you feel anxious about something today?  Sharing it can lessen its power.  Look for a positive thought to balance your anxiety.

October 6, 2013

What is your role in marital disputes – the problem solver, peacemaker, challenger? Are you satisfied with how you solve disagreements? If not, it’s easy to get helpful ideas from this website.

October 5, 2013

Gifts on birthdays and Christmas are fine, but a surprise trinket/flowers may be even more delightful.

October 4, 2013

How do you use the “waiting” times of your life? Waiting for your spouse to get dressed or put on makeup? Waiting at the doctor’s office, red lights, commercials, or check out lanes?  Use these as a prompt to pray rather than getting impatient.

Just Married: The Catholic Guide to Surviving and Thriving in the First Five Years of Marriage

In this book, popular authors Greg and Lisa Popcak offer solid advice to newly-married couples. They cover topics such as conflict, sex, and prayer.

October 3, 2013

Share a childhood memory with your beloved. What was your favorite song, TV show, toy, or outdoor activity? Is it possible to recreate it for a date?

Married Saints of the Month: Saints Louis & Zelie Martin

Did you know that the parents of St. Therese of Lisieux, whose feast we celebrate October 1st, have been beatified? Louis and Zelie Martin exemplified faith, hope, and love in their marriage and family life. They suffered the loss of four children and a rebellious daughter, but their trust in God and love for each other stayed strong.

Building Relationships

“Lately, I’ve noticed myself becoming dissatisfied with Facebook,” writes Sara. “If I want to make a difference in the world, I need to think smaller…I need to focus on the people I encounter in person on a regular basis.”

October 2, 2013

Today’s feast of the Guardian Angels reminds us of God’s care for us. Sometimes it’s hard to trust that God is with us in difficult times. Have you felt God’s presence during a rough patch in your marriage and family life?

Life Matters:  Explaining the Reality of Marriage to Family And Friends

Life Matters: Explaining the Reality of Marriage to Family And Friends

October is Respect Life Month. William B. May recalls the importance of marriage between one man and one woman as the best environment to raise a child and notes that marriage best prepares couples to be parents.

Cheap Dates

Cheap Dates

The leaves are falling, and the weather is getting cooler. It’s a good time to plan some dates with your beloved. Here are some ideas to get you started.

The Interior Conflict of Career and Motherhood

A phone call during her workday, from her sick son, illuminated the “internal contradiction” Stacey feels between her identity as a mother and her weekday work responsibilities. In this post, she reflects on the challenge of reconciling motherhood and work outside the home – a challenge well-known to many.

October 1, 2013

It’s usually easy to pray for our own children. Their needs are so apparent to us. October is Respect Life Month. Pray today for all children in our world, both born and unborn, and for all lives that are threatened or suffering.

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