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May 28, 2017

“All these devoted themselves with one accord to prayer.” (Acts 1:14) Plan to spend time praying with your spouse today. Prayer builds marital unity.


May 27, 2017

Whose fault was your last fight? Maybe it clearly was one of you, but more often it’s a combination of misunderstanding, forgetting to do something, and spouses having different expectations. To resolve an argument, look at what you contributed more than what your spouse did wrong.


May 26, 2017

“To listen carefully to one another, especially those who disagree with me, and to consider others’ feelings and needs rather than insist on having my own way.” (#3, Family Pledge of Nonviolence) Could your family say “Yes” to this? World peace begins at home.


May 25, 2017

What lifts up your spirit? A funny story, a good meal, a hug, a compliment? Lift up each other today.


May 24, 2017

Rita Boeke tells of how she played a practical joke on her husband, Bob, by filling his car with balloons when he was a teacher. (Forever And A Day) Can you think of a practical joke that would bring a smile to your beloved – and not get you in trouble?


May 23, 2017

“Marriage is a public good, not just a private relationship. We have a public stake in healthy marriages….Our society suffers with the collapse of the relationship of the couple who brings a child into the world.” (Bill Doherty) Support others’ marriages too.


May 22, 2017

The Church remembers St. Rita of Cascia today. St. Rita suffered a difficult marriage and the deaths of her children. She is considered a patron for those undergoing marital difficulties. Learn about her today, and ask her prayers if you or others you know are struggling.


May 21, 2017

“Always be ready to give…a reason for your hope.” (1 Pt 3:15) And always be ready to speak of your love! Speaking kindly of one’s spouse strengthens the marriage bond. Look for opportunities to build each other up, both alone and in public.


May 20, 2017

Consider taking an adult education class together. It could be on technology, a book club, marriage enrichment, a Scripture study, or learning more about your faith. Don’t have time to go to a class? Send each other informative emails. Keep your minds alive and in sync.


May 19, 2017

Let fire reignite your love. Try a candlelit dinner, a backyard bonfire, sitting in front of a fireplace, light the house with candles. Be creative. Don’t forget to talk.


May 18, 2017

“It takes a certain quantity of time to catch the quality times. The time it takes to listen to a child’s worry may take less than a minute. Being there when the worry comes up may involve an entire day of just being around.” (Susan Vogt) Same goes for spouses.


May 17, 2017

Make time at the end of each day to share the highs and lows of your day with each other. Go beyond “just the facts” to how it made you feel. Ask questions; listen well.


May 16, 2017

“Have you anything here to eat?” (Lk 24:41) Eating together is not just about food but the nourishment of each other’s company. What’s your favorite way of dining – fast food, meat and potatoes, vegetarian, restaurant, picnics, candlelit at home…? Try it tonight.


May 15, 2017

The Church remembers St. Isidore today, a farmer. Growing food together can be a meaningful activity for a family – shared labor, shared rewards. Start small, with a potted herb or a few plants in the backyard.


May 14, 2017

“You are ‘a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people of his own, so that you may announce the praises’ of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.” (1 Peter 2:9) God has called us all to be holy. How do you live this holiness out in your […]


May 13, 2017

Explore what made your beloved the person he/she is. What traits did he get from his parents? What has been on her bucket list since she was a teen? Who was the most influential person in your spouse’s life during childhood? Ask. Share.


May 12, 2017

Husbands, make the extra effort for your wife today. Opening her door, pulling out her chair, walking on the curb side may seem old fashioned, but it’s a simple way to treat your wife like a queen.


May 11, 2017

Moses had his relatives; Jesus had the Apostles; even the Lone Ranger had Tonto. Do you have a community of friends and relatives who can back you up, and support you in your marriage and parenting? Look for friends who share your values.


May 10, 2017

A trip down memory lane: Recall the first full day of your marriage. Did you go on a honeymoon? Was it exhilarating or exhausting? Remember your first home as a married couple. What did you like best about it? Are you still in it? Reminisce together.


May 9, 2017

Are you and your spouse fit and healthy, or do you struggle to exercise and eat well? Exercise together or give the other time to do it in his/her own way. Taking care of your body is important, so encourage each other. Let your spouse know you’re his/her biggest fan!


May 8, 2017

Playfulness brings joy to a marriage, but some of us are very serious people. If you’re not the naturally playful type, you may have to fake it. Even if you stumble, you can laugh together at your attempts.


May 7, 2017

“I came so that they might have life and have it more abundantly,” says Jesus. (Jn 10:10) We are still in the season of Easter, celebrating the joy of the Resurrection. In what ways can you let the risen Jesus renew your heart and your marriage?


May 6, 2017

How do you stay close when one of you is away – on a business trip, deployed, off with the guys or gals? Consider calling or e-mailing daily. Skype a good night kiss. Send love letters. Pray for each other and let the other know when you did it. What do you do that helps?


May 5, 2017

“Let us love not in word or speech but in deed and truth.” (1 Jn 3:18) Saying “I love you” is good. Being true to your words is better. Showing your love by doing something nice or sacrificing for your beloved is true love. What act of love can you do today?


May 4, 2017

“We measure every policy, every institution, and every action by whether it protects human life and enhances human dignity, especially for the poor and vulnerable.” (Sharing Catholic Social Teaching, 1998) How does the way you treat your spouse and children respect their dignity?


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