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September 7, 2017

Children sometimes criticize and make fun of others; so do adults. Check yourself against these three criteria when criticizing your spouse (or anyone): Is it true? Is it necessary? Is it kind? If not, it’s probably fault-finding or gossip.

September 6, 2017

An ache or a pain, an angst or an annoyance. What to do? Offer it up. This traditional spiritual practice of offering up our troubles as a prayer can redirect our energy from our own gloom to the good of another. For whom can you offer up today’s problems?

September 5, 2017

You can be right, or you can be happily married. Marriage often involves learning (or being told) when you are wrong. Humbly accepting this information when it is true strengthens your bond.

September 4, 2017

Do you show appreciation for the work your spouse does inside the home? Take a moment to say thanks for something he or she does on a regular basis, such as cooking, lawn care or laundry.

September 3, 2017

“Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me.” (Mt 16:24) We never have to carry our crosses alone. Turn to Christ, and allow your spouse to help you carry your cross as well.

September 2, 2017

(Reader’s Tip) My husband and I will occasionally surprise each other with coffee, candy or flowers. It’s a nice way to show we’re thinking of each other.

September 1, 2017

Taking care of your child(ren) sometimes means taking time for your marriage. Nurturing your relationship will pay benefits for children even if it costs money for a babysitter.

August 31, 2017

(Reader’s tip) Don’t let mistakes ruin your relationships. Put them behind you, so you can move on and grow stronger together.

August 30, 2017

Our culture is often obsessed with newness. If it’s new, it’s better. Sometimes the old, the tried, and trusted is better. Over the years, spouses develop a comfort with each other’s idiosyncrasies. What crazy things do you love about your spouse?

August 29, 2017

Our families are imperfect, and imperfect relationships sometimes result in cuts and bruises. Pray for the grace to “forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us” – and ask for forgiveness from those you’ve hurt in return.

August 28, 2017

Do sports or other recreational pursuits steal your attention away from your beloved? Independent interests are fine as long as they are not out of balance. Not sure if it’s too much? Ask.

August 27, 2017

In today’s Gospel Peter professes of Christ, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” (Mt 16:16). As Christians, we are called to profess this truth as well in our everyday lives. Do you proclaim Christ as your Savior in your daily life? In your marriage?

August 26, 2017

“Be subject to one another out of reverence for Christ.” (Eph 5:21) Mutual love and respect are the marks of a Christian marriage. Does your marriage have love and respect as its guiding principles?

August 25, 2017

Technology and media are useful for connecting and inspiration but they can also rob you of precious couple time. Set family rules for tech, and stick to them.

August 24, 2017

Kids are one of the joys of marriage (much of the time). But they also tend to take their time off the top of your energy reserve. You aren’t married to your kids so don’t let them substitute for the intimacy you owe each other.

August 23, 2017

(Reader’s Tip) Take a moment each day to say how much you love your spouse. Thank them for what they do for the family, or just say that you miss them when you’re apart.

August 22, 2017

“Live, not as foolish persons but as wise.” (Eph 5:15) Who is the wisest (not smartest) living person you know? What can you learn from him or her?

August 21, 2017

Not all infidelity is sexual. Does your work steal your attention away from your spouse? Do opposite sex colleagues at work seem more appealing because they seem to be on the same wavelength or flatter you? Pay attention to your vow and your spouse.

August 20, 2017

“But the woman came and did him homage, saying, ‘Lord, help me.’” (Mt 15:25) Have the humility to come to God and to praise him when you are struggling with problems in your family and life.

August 19, 2017

“Focus on strengths more than mistakes.” (Active Parenting) Watch for one accomplishment or virtue that your child demonstrates today and comment on it. This works for spouses too.

August 18, 2017

(Reader’s Tip) Start and end each day by thanking God for letting your spouse be in your life. Just a quick smile when they walk in the room tells them you care that they are near you.

August 17, 2017

When a marriage is in a rut, it may be tempting to think that a different person will bring more happiness.click the “refresh” button with your spouse and try something new together.

August 16, 2017

(Reader’s Tip) Over the 8+ years we’ve been married we’ve lived by the motto that we don’t always have to like each other, but we always love each other.

August 15, 2017

“Blessed are those who hear the word of God and observe it.” (Lk 11:28) Today is a Holy Day of Obligation, when we celebrate the Solemnity of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary into heaven, where she intercedes for her children on earth. Go to Mass as a family today and ask for Mary’s […]

August 14, 2017

What has been a low or dry point in your relationship with your beloved? How did you get through it? If you’re still in a desert, ask for help – from your spouse, God, or from a counselor (no shame in that).

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