Daily Marriage Tips
Tips courtesy of Susan Vogt, MA, CFLE
February 9
Jesus literally laid down his life for us. We also lay down our lives when we put our spouse's comfort before our own, when we let go of having the last word in an argument, or when we labor for the family.
February 8
What's your re-entry pattern at the end of the work day? If your spouse is an extrovert consider giving him/her 15 minutes to vent when you first reconnect.
February 7
Christian marriage is not a 50/50 contract. It's a covenant, which means that each spouse promises to give unreservedly - 100%.
February 6
Love is beautiful but more complicated the second time around. If you are contemplating a second marriage, attend a quality marriage preparation program geared to your unique situation.
February 5
An attraction towards the opposite sex can alert you to something missing in your marriage. Identify the quality you're drawn to and try to make it live again in your marriage. You don't need a new person, just new eyes for your spouse.
February 4
"Never go to bed angry" is a helpful maxim. But what if an argument drags on and you're only getting more frustrated? Call a time out and set a time to reconnect the next day.
February 3
"Let mutual love continue. Do not neglect hospitality." (Hebrews 13:1) Your love is a gift that will deepen if you share it with others. Think of ways you can open your home to those in need.
February 2
(Ground Hog Day) Develop your shadow side today. If you're shy, make an overture to someone in need. If you're not very affectionate, give your spouse an unexpected kiss or hug.
February 1
(Black History Month) Not all injustices are black or white. Often there's a lot of gray when trying to figure out who is right in an argument. Try to look at the problem through you spouse's eyes.
January 31
How are you doing with your New Year's Resolutions? Help each other to carry them out.
